Circle of Security Parenting™

Move beyond "managing behavior" and learn to meet the emotional needs your child is actually asking for. Join our 8-week journey to become the secure base your child needs. (best suited for parents of children ages 0–8)

Secure my spot (Spring 2026)

"I know I love them... so why does this feel so hard?"

You’ve tried the charts, the time-outs, and the "hacks," but something still feels missing. You’re exhausted by the power struggles and want a relationship built on trust, not just compliance. Circle of Security Parenting™ isn't about more "tips"—it's about a total shift in how you see your child.

What becomes possible

Reacting to the "loud" behavior → See the hidden need beneath the behavior.

Feeling triggered and overwhelmed → Understand your own "Shark Music" (triggers).

Guessing what your child needs → Follow the "Circle" to provide exactly what they require.

Striving for perfection → Focus on "Good Enough" parenting and repair.

A diagram titled 'Circle of Security' illustrating a parent attending to a child's needs. The diagram shows a child climbing a tree and a smaller child walking, with bubbles indicating their needs to support exploration, watch over, help, and enjoy. The diagram also highlights the parent's role in providing a secure base and safe haven, with tips on following the child's needs and taking charge when necessary.

What is Circle of Security Parenting™?

Circle of Security Parenting™ is a globally recognized, research‑based parenting program grounded in 30+ years of attachment research. At its heart is a simple yet powerful framework — the Circle — which helps parents understand:

What children need from us when they explore the world

What they need when they return for comfort, reassurance, and connection

How to recognize and respond to their emotional cues

What gets in the way for us as parents — especially under stress

Rather than focusing on behavior alone, COS‑P supports parents in strengthening the relationship that underlies all behavior. This program invites you into a compassionate process of reflection, learning, and growth — alongside other parents walking a similar path.

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The 8-Week Roadmap

Phase 1:

Foundations of the Circle

Understand the "Secure Base" and "Safe Haven" and how your child moves between them.

Phase 2:

Decoding the Language of Needs

Learn to read the subtle cues your child gives—from the "big feelings" of a toddler to the growing independence & social-emotional shifts of a school-aged child.

Phase 3:

The Parent's Path

Reflect on your own history and patterns to stay "Bigger, Stronger, Wiser, and Kind" even when things get messy.

This is learning that meets you where you are — not where you think you should be.

Note: While the Circle of Security framework applies to all ages, this specific cohort focuses on the developmental needs of children in the early childhood years, infancy through age 8.

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The Logistics

Next Cohort:

Start 1 May to 19 June
(Fridays)

7am PDT | 9am CDT | 10am EDT

Session Format

Virtual weekly sessions
1.5 hour each session

Small group size to preserve intimacy & depth

Investment

USD 380

Includes 8 live sessions + digital workbook + private community

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This is for you if...

You have a child in the early childhood or early elementary years (0–8) and want to build a foundation of security that lasts a lifetime.

You want to strengthen connection with your child

Are curious about attachment and emotional development

Feel stuck in patterns of reactivity and want another way

Long for parenting support that feels respectful and human

You do not need to be in crisis. You do not need to have all the answers. You only need a willingness to reflect — and to show up with openness. This is that space designed for you.

What Past Participants Are Saying

Lina is kind, gentle and insightful. She has created a safe space for parents to share, learn, and reflect on parenting strategies. This circle has shed light on ways I want to improve as a parent, but also highlight all the positive, intentional, impactful rituals I am offering to my children and family. Learning from other parents has been a powerful resource from this group.

— Kendra A.,
Mom to 3 little humans, ages 4 (twins) & 12m
The Circle of Security Program facilitated by Lina is definitely recommended for all parents out there who are seeking greater connection with their children. Lina is an empathetic facilitator who is always ready to help and guide us on the course materials. This program has enabled me to take a step back and understand my child better as it makes me look at my child’s behaviour from a different angle. We can never be a perfect parent but as long as we become better every day, that’s a win. Thank you so much Lina!

— Clare L.,
Mom to a 2.5 yo daughter
Lina has been very patient throughout the course and created a very safe and positive learning platform for us. It was through her that I learnt more about the needs of my explosive strong-willed child e.g. many times he needs help in organising his feelings. With Lina's encouraging teachings, I slowly identified that the same child needs help to learn how to walk out of his anxiety or fear.

— Parent to 2 boys, ages 11 & 9, shared anonymously

Your Guide:
Lina Lie,
Registered
Circle of Security® Facilitator

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Hello!

Lina is a family coach, somatic practitioner, and parent educator in Positive Discipline with over five years of experience supporting parents and caregivers through the transitions of infancy, the "terrible" (but terrific) twos, and the first years of elementary school. Through Raising Thriving Families, she creates safe, non-judgmental spaces where parents can slow down, reflect, and grow with intention.

Her work is grounded in attachment theory, nervous system awareness, and deep respect for the realities of modern parenting. Lina believes that the desire for secure attachment sits at the heart of every relationship and that meaningful change begins with reflection, not perfection.

As your Circle of Security® Parenting facilitator, Lina will gently guide you through the COS-P framework while holding a supportive, compassionate container — so you can feel confident, connected, and supported as you nurture your relationship with your child.

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An introductory video to Circle of Security Parenting™

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Here is a short introductory video that explains how COS-P offers a relationship-based approach to understanding your child's needs. Learn how to read your child's behavioral cues as a communication of deeper needs. Based on decades of attachment research, this approach helps you respond with confidence when your child needs support for exploring, comfort for reconnecting, or gentle guidance.

Have more questions? Drop me a line at lina@raisingthrivingfamilies.co

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